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Okay well there is this boy that I am in love with.Also he liked me last year and we where really getting along and we where like best friends and I was loveing it.So when this new girl comes he starts likeing her and is being mean to me and acting really strange.But than summer came and I was getting over him untill the first day of school I fell for him again And I have no clue why its scareing me I really want to get over him and I want this girl gone.So please help me.

There's never going to be a real answer for this.
"You don't fall out of love with one, until you fall into it with another"
I love that quote, except for the fact, how're you ever going to love another if you don't let go of the first one to an extent of letting yourself even be with someone else, and feel right about it.
You could talk to him about it,
or make the move to put it in the past, and work on REALLY getting over him.
There's always going to be other options, even if you don't even really look at them as options at first.
It'll be hard. honestly.
and even though it feels like you can't. You can. it happens to everyone, and everytime it's going to feel worse. but that's all leading up to the good one, the keeper. :]
Just stay positive. Keep yourself busy, maybe you'll start thinking of him less.

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