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My name's Evan.
I'm a guy. I'm honest. I'm a listing ear and a shoulder to cry on. I'm trustworthy, and usually try to hold myself to high values. I never judge a book by it's cover (so to speak), and I always try to give people the benefit of the doubt. Life is real. I've seen too much of life to not know what I'm talking about. If there's something I honestly don't know, I'll tell you that. I'm also pretty mature for my age: I'm old enough to know better, but still young enough to understand.
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15/f.
So i feel like im loosing my friends i have currently. I have these other friends who i am getting kind of close to. And i made new friends who are friends of my friends. Now two of the people im getting close to I've known since i was a little girl. These friends arent the best, they smoke, they drink, its all about sex. Im not saying i dont drink but i only do it ocassionally. I really would love to hang out with thme because they are real friends, they stick up for me & listen & help me out. But im not up for the whole partying thing, thats basically all they do & know. I would have no problem going to a party, but i just dont get it. I dont know what to do. should i still be friends with them, should i dump them as friends and get different ones, should i talk to them about it? i dont know. any help would be nice.
Awesome. This is one of those things I know for a fact. Statistics (and personal experience) show that you are an average of the five closest people to you. You engage in the same activities, learn the same things, make similar decisions, and (if you keep them long enough) end up making about the same amount of money as them. No Joke.
You don't want to be a party girl? Don't hang out with party girls. They go to partys and party hardy. I'm not saying shun them or cut them off; love them where they're at. But be build quality relationships with people you look up to. People who either have what you want in your life, or have the same wants and desires as you do.
Good luck on your freind search. I'm actually going through one right now myself...
-Evan
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Thanks so much.
I forgot to mention
one of these party kids
i have this thing for :[
but its okay you really did help
me thanks so much.
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