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Member Since: September 30, 2007
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Last Update: September 30, 2007
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13/f ~ Much help needed

Ok, so my best guy friend and I have gotten together 2 days ago. He was always kinda shy even when we were just friends, but when we IM each other its like we can talk about anything, ever since we got together we have been talking for almost 3 hours, on AIM, but we don't seem to have that kind of convo in person. What kind of topic starters could we talk about in person.

Secondly,
He is shy but I want to hold his hand or hug him so much, (I am not really wanting to kiss him until we can have a good convo in person.) but I don't know if I should make the first move or if I should wait for him, should I say something about it on AIM, or not? Help please!
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i have been in your possisition many times.
this guys isn't very manly or he would be able to carry on a convo in person. but i can tell you he likes you ALOT because the only reason he can't confront you and talk to you is because he is nervouse.

and you should take things slowly.
continue talking on IM, and AIM, and maybe he will gradually feel more comfortable with you. when you are together just bring up common topics, that he likes to talk about, and that will get him going.
and dont say anything to him about wanting to hug him. he'll make the first move when he is ready.


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