Member Since: September 15, 2007
Answers: 8
Last Update: September 16, 2007
Visitors: 1444
|
| |
|
okay, so i had this friend, let's call her Em. and she was seriously my bestest friend. but then all this drama happened during sophomore year of high school and our friendship fell apart. now we're juniors and we're cool now. like we say hi and we're friendly to each other and stuff, but it's still pretty awkward between us. like we don't talk like we used to and we obviously dont do all those things best friends used to do anymore. i really miss her. but i don't think she misses me because she has another best friend at school. i want to gradually become close with her again, but i don't want to seem SUPER CLINGY to her because that was one of the reasons why our friendship fell apart. what can i do to get my best friend back? any advice is welcome. thanks so much in advance! (link)
|
I think you should casually start to talk more and ask her if she wants to do lunch sometime with you. If you have lunch with her once then wait for her to call you to do something next. If she doesn't then you need to consider the drama that happened. I'm not sure the drama that happened so it might be something to do with that. If you want to tell me about the drama it might help the situation and give me a better idea of how things got so bad.
Hope you come to a conclusion,
Zoelebee
Thank you for sending me the drama that happened this might help. You might want to wait and see what happens. Casually talk to them in person more than online, if possible. Online usually leads to misconception of words. If they can't get along they will soon be coming back to be your friend and do you really want them to be your friend after all that happened. It might be time to move on, in a year or so you will be starting college so maybe its time to move on. I hope this helps and good luck.
- Zoelebee
|
|
Rating: 5
|
hey thanks so much for your advice.
[im sorry if this gets long]
the thing is, i have lunch with her. and we sit at the same table and stuff. but with other people, so we don't really get to talk much. i talked to her online and she told me herself that she thinks it's awkward still. i try to be friendly and stuff so that it's not awkward but i dont know. i feel like she doesnt want to be friends anymore because she already has another best friend. and well the drama actually started because of them. ALL THREE of us were best friends. but there were always times when two were closer, and the other felt left out. and when it happened to me, maria (that's em's real name) didnt wanna be friends with her, and stephanie [her best friend and my ex-best friend] obviously took her side. i tried talking to them before about the situation, but i dont think they want to bring it all back since it happend last year. i dont know. i feel like theyre already happy with each other. but i miss them both. i dont know if i should even try being their friend again or not.
im sorry it's so long. =(
|
|