my name is matt, im 17. im in the 11th grade at cape central high. i belive that God has put me on this earth to become a pastor, and to lead people to him. if you ever need anything, got any questions, need someone to pray with you, or w/e. email me, or ask me.
God bless
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13/f 7th grade, I have no self-esteem. I'll tell you the reason why too. I moved from Indiana to Kentucky. It started out there. I was the new girl, getting to know everyone. My mom had just started dating this new guy right after her divorce. I met his daughter, Alison Jones aka the bitch. At first I thought she was a really good person, nice friendly. We started to go to the same school and I got on her softball team. Well this was about 3 years ago when it started. I thought she was my friend. But this shows that you can't trust anyone very well. She started spreading rumors. I don't know what she said, but no one would talk to me. The new girl. Its hard being the new girl because everyone is supposed to be friendly right? Nope. Half the time, if the teacher told anyone to sit by me, they wouldn't do it. And if they did, they insulted me. calling me ugly and stupid. After a while, I couldn't deal with it. I actually started to believe that I was ugly and stupid. My grades fell behind....and I didn't have any friends. EVen talking about it makes me wanna cry, which is what I'm doing. I started thinking suicidle. But I finally met one of my closest friends and she put a stop to it. But there is still damage. I have self-esteem left in my body. Not one ounce. I just moved to Oklahoma. I new start. It's great. But I still think about it and I have no self-esteem. The bright side, everyone likes me for my bright personality. Not letting my other personal stuff get in the way. I have no Idea how to get all my self-esteem back. Someone plz hep me.
P.S. sorry it was so long. (link)
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no your question wasnt to long, i've wrote,and read alot longer. well its good that seeing how you moved to oklahoma you're doing alot better now. thats real good. this is how i look at it. what happened is in the past. not a thing you can do about it. it was just a chapter in your life that left a slight bitter taste in your mouth. (i know the feeling.) the only thing i can tell you, is don't let it get to you. figure it like this, when you have a problem your going through, lets say idk, your boyfriend breaks up with you. or w/e. just for a moment think back to what happened, and say" if i lived through that, what ever lies ahead i've already won." think of it like that. don't let other people tell you how to run your life, thats between you and God. nobody else. and if the people at your new school like you, FOR YOU, then more power to you. just keep doing what you're doing. don't change just to get people to like you. lord no, thats not any good. well that was kinda long, but i belive it'll help you. need anything else, just yell.
-God bless
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thx, I'm so happy I came to this site a couple of years back. It kinda helps my self-esteem go up when I get a 5 on an answer I answered
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