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Ok, i have a problem with my ex boyfriend (Jeremy) Last year we dated for 5 months and then i dumped him for this other guy. We didnt talk this summer because we kinda had a fight. Then this year on the first day of school he was in 2 of my classes! After the 2nd class i asked him if i could call him and he said yeah and we talked a little bit. After that I thought it would be fine but boy was i wrong. Then (of course!!!) I was in a group with my friend, a girl i didn't know, HIM, and his other ex girlfriend who hates my guts! She and i have PE and hon. biology together (Hon. bio is what i hav with both Jeremy and his other ex, Miranda) She hates me because he dated me last year when she liked him still from the previosu year. Anyway we have extra lab periods when we do labs and stuff and when I work with him i get super stressed out and get really mad at him! I don't know why but he just frusterates me SO MUCH! On the first day i wanted to cry when he showed up in my classes and was super stressed and today after getting together (the whole group) in study hall to assign jobs for the lab report I got so stressed out w/him i was just like ok does everyone know what they're doing? good cause im leaving! And i left. Miranda (the ex) and i talked because i said "i know u dont like me but..." and she said" i thought it was the other way around-i thought u didnt like me!?" and i said "no i don't have a prob with u" and she said same so i guess we have a truce or whatever. i never hated he and actually think she's pretty nice but i know she used to hate me even if she doesn't anymore. My main question tho is why do i get so stressed when i work with him and how can i change it??? Last year we never had classes together so this is a first but i get so mad i want to cry or scream or sumthing and this isn't gonna work with me like that everyday! No way! Please tell me how to chill out!!!!! And sorry this is sooo long! I rate too!!! :D (link)
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are you mad because you dont have him? remember you dumped him! he apparently didnt have what it takes to keep you happy. make a list of what really bothers you when hes around, is it just seeing him, his voice his actions, you need to find the problem before you can fix it. pick another lab partner, avoid him, or even change classes, before your grades suffer. good luck and remember you can always count to ten {or 100} BRIE
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Thanks so much! I am going to stat counting! Its just the way he acts i guess. But yesterday i tried just going with it and not getting worked up and it went really well. He and i r friends now and i told him how he stresses me out and he said dont worry about it and then he said it was kinda funny-jerk! lol we were just kidding. i am stuck with him in my group for the quarter and i dont thik i can really change that but he is smart and sinch im in the most advanced science he wont bring me down! Again thanks!
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