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Q: ok i am going out with this guy, and it is going good expect one thing!!!!
he NEVER talks to me!!!!!!!! like we talk on the phone but it is like all silent and everything!!! and then when we are on yahoo we talk all the time and stuff!!! and then at school we dont talk but we give each other eye contact and when i am in the hall way he will come up to me and like pump me and will say o i didnt see u there and stuff ina funny way!!!!
but i just dont know if it is going on the wait track!!!!!!!
i like him a lot too!!!!!!!!
so can anyone help????


yeah it definately sounds like hes just shy. and doesnt really know what to talk about with you. So i would say when your on the phone you have to take the initiative and get him talking. you have to pick the topic because he sounds like he wont, so maybe talk about school or ask him what he did that weekend or about his family or anything ask him about him. or you could talk about yourself tell him a funny story. that should get him talking and it will be more comfortable
hope that helped
-mari :D

thanks
yea now everything is going good and i am going ona date with him friday so yea

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hey. im mari. Im 14 and completely and 100 percent me. just mari, nothing else. I try to be myself always not let others influence me. I act on a whim, my first instincts and always have fun no matter what im doing. Right now im just focusing on being a teenager and savoring every last second of it. I love to play soccer, play tennis, ice skate, listen to music, dance, singg, be silly, hang out with friends, basically everything a normal teenager likes. but i also love to help people and give advice. I think im pretty good at it...most of the time :D so drop one in my inbox and you can see for yourselves!

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