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Q: last year, i liked this guy who i had to stop liking because he was with my best friend even though i liked him first and she liked him secretly and i had to find out myself through someone else that she liked him. is it right that she's with him even though i don't like him now but i used to? and now i hate him, not really hate, but i dont talk to him a lot, not like i used to. is it right for her to still like him even though i hate him? is it right for my best friend to like him even though he was really mean to me, and she knew it? if its not right, what should i tell her? so here are my questions:
1. is it right that my best friend is with someone i like first?
2. is it right for her to like him even though he was mean to me and she knew it?
3. if its not right, what and how should i tell her? p.s she's sensitive
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1. since you dont like him anymore, she probably feels like its ok, but if you feel like its not tell her.
2. if hes nice to her, she probably doesnt believe you when you say hes mean to you. this happened with me and my bestfriend, her boyfriend was an asshole to me, he even physically hurt me but she didnt care cuz he was the greatest guy to her. she thought i was overexagerating. she probably doesnt see how mean he is to you which is why she looks past it and still believes hes a nice guy.
3. if you want to confront her say 'i really do love you, but it hurt me that you took this guy that i liked first and that now hes so mean to me, and that you feel like your being replaced.' just tell her that and dont blame anyhting on her if shes sensitive just ask her in a calm voice why.
hope this works
-mari :D
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Thanks for the advice. I'll try to use it. The problem is that she knows that he WAS, not is, WAS, mean to me. But I'll tell her how I feel. Thanks for the awesome advice. :D
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bio
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hey. im mari. Im 14 and completely and 100 percent me. just mari, nothing else. I try to be myself always not let others influence me. I act on a whim, my first instincts and always have fun no matter what im doing. Right now im just focusing on being a teenager and savoring every last second of it. I love to play soccer, play tennis, ice skate, listen to music, dance, singg, be silly, hang out with friends, basically everything a normal teenager likes. but i also love to help people and give advice. I think im pretty good at it...most of the time :D so drop one in my inbox and you can see for yourselves!
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Info
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Gender: Female Location: minnesota Age: 14 AIM: Member Since: November 12, 2006 Answers: 61 Last Update: January 12, 2008 Visitors: 4514
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