about

i'm melanie, call me melly ♥
i'm 18 years old & from long island
i go to University at Buffalo,im majoring in nursing and absolutely love it!

i have the big accent, the big smile and the even bigger heart :)


i love giving advice and helping people out, which is why i`m here. I also love getting feedback, it tells me if I did my job. =)


No question is stupid, ask away!

....I might not always give you the answer you want to hear, but from me youll only hear the truth



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i did the cabbage diet, the original version from Poland, and i lost 7 pounds in 6 days. it's an unhealthy diet since you don't eat carbs, but you should only do it for 1 week at a time. And most people say its impossible to keep the weight off, but I prove them wrong.




advice

I am very outgoing and can usually carry conversations very well if there are 3 or more people, however if it is just me and one other person, I can't seem to keep a conversation going. Any tips on how to keep conversations going and not make it awkward?

Be yourself. always. The worst thing is to pretend to be something that your really not. You should walk into your new school with a smile on your face, and into every class. It makes you look approachable. To make friends, you should always try to make them feel comfortable. DON'T endlessly talk about yourself. Ask them questions about themselves, make it seem like you're interested, and don't be afraid to smile. You can ask them questions referring to their heritage, or where have they been besides America, or if they don't like any of their teachers, or if they got lost in the halls or are still nervous about high school, or if they like it better than junior high. Theirs billions of questions and things you can talk about to get a relationship [friendship] going.
hope i helped
xo

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(Rating: 4) Thanks but I was talking about one on one conversations with people I already know, so this didn't really help. But it was good advice for meeting new people.

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