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Q: 17.f
theres this kid that i have liked for a very long time. well at the beginning of the year he found otu i liked him, and he said the most hurtful thing about me, in front of my 2 bestfriends. now they obviously told me. and when they did i confronted him and i was flipping out. now me and him have been friends for a very long time. and i dont want to loose him as a friend. but what he said was extremely hurtful and made me feel like i was nothing. well the day after he told me how sorry he was and that if he didnt mean it then he wouldn't have said it. so i guess he meant what he said. and that made me seriously cry for about a week, because it hurt so much. I talk to him now, with him knowing i like him. and he's all cool with that we are jut friends. i just dont know if i did the right thing by talking to him again. Because he hurt me so bad and made me feel ugly, feel like a nothing and i could never be pretty. i guess im just wondering if by me maknig the choice of talking to him again was the right choice?
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Well it kind of depends on your guys relationship. If it really was important to you and if you like being his friend, and he apologized you made the right choice. Even though he did hurt your feelings. But sometimes people can be so mad or confused it makes them feel clear and some how better by saying something mean. Which is of course a HUGE mistake. But then when they have some time to think about your guys relationship and that he cares about you as a friend of course he should feel regret and alot of guilt. And sometimes a person needs a second chance. Just make sure he is treating you right. And remember that we all have made mistakes and said some stuff we dont mean and later regret. So remember those words he said to you were just probably slipped out of anger but not the truth. But it is your decision.
hope i helped :]
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Thanks so much.
I know people say things out of anger.
but what hurt is he wasnt even mad at me.
he said it because he felt that way.
he even told me that if he didnt mean it he wouldnt have said it.
and im starting to think like i make the mistake as trusting him again.
but thanks for the helpp.
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hi, my name is emily i am 14 years old and in 8th grade
i love hanging out with my friends,good with little kids, shopping,boys, cheerleading, dancing, music, fashion, eating haha, and giving advice :]
I also really enjoy going to my beach house, especially when i bring my 3 bffs.
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Gender: Female Age: 13 Member Since: July 11, 2007 Answers: 105 Last Update: August 19, 2008 Visitors: 7605
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