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Hi, My mom is 100% careless, she gets me whatever i want, like anything, but i asked her tonight "Can i go to victorias secret to get bras and underwears?" she was like, THATS FUC*ING INSANE! I dont even wear that?! You'll get it when i start!" and shes 46, my sister, whom is 19.. turning 20 in january, she gets it with my MOMS CREDIT CARD! its redicilous! All of my friends wear their bras, but of corse, mine are from like, target, and the rest of my clothing is from abercrombie, it doesnt make sence! HOW CAN I TELL HER I DESERVE STUFF FROM THAT STORE!? and i already have underwear from there, my mom gave me her credit card when i was on a school trip in washington DC. and i got stuff in the mall, its pissing me off!

* what can i do to prove to her that i should be allowed to wear it?
* why do you think she wont let me?
* she wants my father to pay for it, just like everything else.

I really don't understand why you need designer underwear. Who's going to see it? And if anybody IS going to be seeing it...well, if you're younger than your sister, you're probably too young to be doing that kind of stuff anyway. And if the reason you want it is just to say you have it...that's a little selfish, don't ya think?

I think you're the one who's definitely overreacting here. Who cares where your underwear is from?

If you really want it from there, just tell your mom you're willing to buy it with your own money. You should already be doing that for the rest of your clothes anyway.

Hope this cleared some things up. Just my opinion, by the way.

-Adri

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