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I'm 17 years old, I've been a cheerleader basically my whole life, It's a great SPORT.. I love it. I've been through so much in my life that no one really knows about. I've matured so much throughout high school it's unbelievable. I learned how important family is, in the end they'll always be there for you. I've delt with more then normal teenagers my age have. I live in a very wealthy area where most of the kids have parents who pay for everything and they don't understand the value of money. I moved when I was in third grade because my parents got divorced. From experiences i've had to deal with, I have become extremly independent and appreciative of everything I have. I joined this advice website because I was looking for advice on something, but then when I looked more into it I realized that I could give advice to people... I think i've experienced everything that people ask questions about.. and I love helping people out. I'm an extremly caring person.. and I hate drama(who doesn't?) I love to cheer, tumble, workout, be active etc... I had a boyfriend for about 3 years through high school.. 2 years older then me.. we broke up because of college. I can give great relationship advice as well as family/friends or anything else you want to know!!

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Okay so I'm going to take a crack at this advice thing. I'm female.

I want to know what the heck is wrong with me. I dont think I am completely ugly and I even lost weight thinking that if I did that then maybe someone would be interested in me. I'm getting older and I am in high school. I've never even been asked out/ been liked.

Are all guys into blonde, stick thin, popular, sort of slutty type of girls?

I'm tired of seeing all my friends have relationships and stuff and im sitting on the sidelines. I hate this feeling. I dont want the advice that i just need to talk to guys and be friendly, because that doesn't work. Because I do talk to guys.

Maybe I'm just unlikeable. I have no clue.

Honestly.. you shouldn't think somethings wrong with you.. have confidence in yourself.. guys love a girl with confidence. Also just be yourself.. there's nothing worse then trying to be someone you're not... don't worry, just let things happen on their own.. don't force a relationship. I know it's hard waiting but sooner or later you'll meet someone right for you. And I don't think that guy's are into the type of girls you mentioned, slutty/popular/stickthin etc., and the guys who are interested in those characteristics are mostly shallow guys ;). In the long run guys aren't attracted to slutty stuck up girls. Good luck.. be confident!! =)

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