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me and my friend were with these two guys last night and my friend and one of the guys were gonna hook up. so my friend asks me if i wanted to hook up with the other one so i said yeah sure. so when we get to the point where were about to make out he starts to undo his pants and i was like what the hell? i never said i was giving you a bj and i just got really pissed off because i thought he was a cool guy and not some perv and he turned out to be one. so we sat there and it was so akward and i told to him to go get some other slut but its not gonna be me and im proud of myself for standing up to him but idk maybe i should have done it...also i havent given one either and i have a feeling my friend told him i would give him one because she does shitty stuff like that. was i too harsh on him? ugh im so confuseddd. btw im really sorry this is so long. lol so any advice/opinions would be great :]
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hey, you did the absolute right thing, don't regret it! you stood up for yourself respected yourself, so don't be ashamed about that.
you definitely weren't too harsh on that guy. so what if he didn't get a bj that night, I doubt he'll have trouble finding some slutty girl to help him out.
try to wait for a guy that you actually like before giving a bj. even though it's not intercourse, it's still a sexual act and it shouldn't just please one person.
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