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Q: Okay, I'm starting highschool this year and i have a HUGE fear of public speaking. This year we have to take an "art" so not thinking i chose theatre arts; and were going to have to be on stage a lot. when i get up in front of a group i tend to shake or my voice shakes,.. how can i get rid of this fear and start highschool with some more confidence. thanks in advance!
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Hey, I had the same problem with public speaking throughout middle and high school, I even had to go to therapy. Anyways, here are some tips that my therapist taught me that really help:
1.Breath really slow deep breaths in through your nose and out through your mouth (this always relaxes my body, its amazing)
2.Picture yourself doing the whole presentation with confidence and ease. A lot of times we feel anxious because we think about what could go wrong, so we can feel better by reversing those thoughts.
3.Practce in front of the mirror (and even in front of your family) several times. The more you repeat it, the more it will become second nature and you'll feel more comfortable since you know it so well.
4. I your hands shake really bad (as did mine) and you have to hold a piece of paper you could put it on a clipboard or binder or something sturdy so that your shaking won't be as obvious. It always helped me feel better to know that even if I was shaking, no one would be able to tell.
5. I don't know if you will lose points for this but if you can, don't look directly at the audience. Look just over the heads at a wall or something so that it still looks like your looking at them. Sometimes looking at the audience directly can be intimidating.
Hopefully this will help, good luck!
Remember to pratice, pratice, pratice!
Jenny
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Hi, I'm Jenny and I am here to give you the advice you need! I am a psychology major in college and I hope to become a therapist or psychologist after I finish school. I am very friendly and opened-minded so don't be afraid to ask me! If you would feel more comfortable, you can send me your question in an email. My email is advice@askjen.org. I am also starting my own online advice website, check it out at www.askjen.org (I just started working on it so there's not much there yet).
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E-mail: Gender: Female Occupation: student Member Since: July 25, 2007 Answers: 17 Last Update: August 9, 2007 Visitors: 1544
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