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Q: Okay this is kind of a weird question, but here goes nothing...19/f, he's 20/m
The past couple of times my boyfriend and I have had sex, he's wound up not quite hard enough and complaining that it hurts. Not, like, friction, exactly, but he's mentioned something about me squeezing too hard. We tried it again today and the same thing happened, where it started hurting him and he got kinda soft. He told me he thought it hurt because he wasn't hard enough and there was like, bending and pulling and all that.
The only thing I can think of that either of us changed is his diet. He's cut red meat out, and has been eating only turkey and fish for meat, and everything else healthy. He's a health freak and so am I, but I've never heard of a diet change doing anything like that to someone...
Is it possible?
What else could cause that?

It is a factor because certain foods affect the blood flow of to his penis...I looked this up for ya

The main thing to look for in food is for those ingredients that will keep your blood flowing. The substances contained in these foods are called vasodilators and they work by relaxing the smooth muscles making up the walls of blood vessels. Examples of such food are salmon, tuna, eggs, milk, liver and vegetables like broccoli, carrots, sweet potatoes and tomatoes.

While these foods have no readily detectable influence on your penis size, their presence in your diet can help promote the blood flow that is the key to your erections. If your circulatory system is in perfect working order and if the blood vessels are allowing more blood to pass through the penis, then your erection is bound to be bigger than usual

Rating: 3

Erection size wasn't really the problem, but thanks for the research. I appreciate it =)

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