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Sorry it might be long but please someone read and help me?

I am just wondering, am I living in a fantasy land? Well I am 16/f and I turn 17 in december. (about to be junior in highschool) The thing is, I have been going out with my bf for 3 month and half, about. I am really great it worked out like that because he's been my best friend for about a year eversince my 10th grade year started. We were just acquaintences at the beginning of my 10th grade (he was senior and now he graduated) and we just became really good friends.

When we were just friends, I realized i liked him as more than a friend but I didnt want to admit that because I wasnt sure if he liked me because he is nice to everyone (he was voted most friendliest...) so i was even in denial that i liked him and i went out with couple guys and i always confided in him about guy stuff. I know... not a good idea to talk about a guy with another guy. but he was only one i could really trust and i know he gives me a solid truth. And we both knew i had some "committment issue" yet when it came down, he still didn't judge me differently and asked me out.

Well that's really great because he is such a great guy and he's my best friend and my boyfriend. I truly believe there is no one wonderful like him (even though that is totally my biased opinion :D) We can and do talk on the phone for hours everynight and there's never and dull moment. We can make fun of eachother like crazy and have fun. We have very similar hobbies and its all good.

However nothing can be this perfect. I am not allow to date anybody until i graduate from high school. We are different race and both of our parents dont really want that. He's already graduated (taking off 1 year before going to any college) and I am about to start my junior year.

But I told him I loved him because I do. I really do love him even if some people may say how can a 16 year old girl know. His response was that he believes that you only love one person and only that person in your whole life so when he tells me, that would be tied up with him asking me to marry me. I respect his decision and opinions so no big deal. But lately we've been talking about marrying and all that and everything but the thing is, is there a even chance that this will actually work out? I mean nothing would make me happy if it all worked out like we planned (yes we even planned on where and when to get married... how wonderful..) or is it just a childish fantasy?

Nobosy can say if this would work out or not because like the other person said nobody knows whats going to happen..but i wouldn't have second thoughts about your relationship just because there is a chance it wont work out. My best mates mum and dad have been together since they were 13 and now they are married with 4 children. Just shows that it can work out. As for your mum and dad not wanted ou to be with him..its not their decision is it? Your the one dating him not them =] Anyways Hope I Helped x x x

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