hollister_lover09's advice column

i am 23 y.o. confident and attractive. have been with my boyfriend since i was 15 and we have 2 kids. we usually argue over stupid things and if he doesnt like what i wear, he says i look like a slut. he seems to say hurtful things like this whenever he feels like it. i have warned him to stop, but it continues. he says i am so beautiful and smart, he will never leave me. i feel like i need to leave him, but this decision is so hard for me to make. we go out to night clubs a lot and we used to have fun together, but now his bad attitude seems to ruin all the fun. he is very jealous also. should i leave him? he is a good dad and has always worked full time. if i should, how?

Tell him you want a break. He shouldnt be calling you those names. And Im not saying he will, but you want to get out before he starts hitting you. Make him show you he loves you and amke him promise to never call you names. If he starts again, leave him for good. I hope I helped

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(Rating: 5) thanx. we do get in to physical fights sometimes. he has already promised about the name calling and broke it many times. it helps to hear it from someone else.

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