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I am a 27 year old female from Scotland. I have a lot of life experience and will do my best to answer any questions you have honestly.

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my boyfriend lives in El paso Texas...i live in washington we've been living in a long distance relationship for about 3 years now with alot of bumps..im 17. he doesnt want to get a job ever, hes addicted to playing a video game called diablo 2, sometimes i think i should just leave him find someone better, who can give me attention that i need. should i leave him? when i go home in september i fear that we'll break up because of all the bull that goes around in long distance alot of tears and heartache on my part. hes really sweet sometimes, and cares alot about me, i can honestly say im Still and always will be in love with this man. the games are too much. a little advice for a fool?

I think that you have already answered your own question. I am not saying that you don't love this guy however, it seems to me that you already know that there isn't really a viable future for you both especially if all he ever wants to do with his life is play computer games.

When you get home, go out with your friends and enjoy yourself. You will soon see what you are missing out on and will notice that although this guy can be sweet he has probably caused you a lot of heart ache which was unnecessary.

It is never a good reason to stay in any relationship just because you have been together for a long time.

It is never easy to end a relationship but is it really fair on either of you to continue in this manner if neither of you are getting what you need from the relationship?

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(Rating: 3) he says i make him happy so i guess hes getting something out of the relationship..a girlfriend to be there whenever he gets bored of the game...its hard for me because hes the only guy i could deal with the whole mushy I love you's everyone else made me feel sick inside.
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