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Hello, I am a 22 year old FTM(female to male) transman seeking advice on operative status.

I am confused as to what constitutes what status I am in terms of the transexual operative system. I consider myself a man in gender identity, but I have not started medical transition, so I am still seen as a female on the outside.

I am unsure if I am even going to transition in my lifetime. I keep flip-flopping between yes and no.

So would that make me pre-op or non-op?

I haven't started transitioning in dress much seeing as clothes are expensive. I have a little socially, like my trans friends call me by my male name and refer to me as male. Unfortunately I have told many other friends but they don't refer to me as male no matter how many times I tell them.

Other then that I am still very much closeted and don't mention my identity much. I often find myself questioning if it's even worth me coming out if I planned not to transition? Could I still claim myself a man if I didn't transition? or would it be a waste?

It would be a struggle even if I did transition because it would be difficult for everyone around me including my family.

Very difficult to decide.

So do these things make me pre-op or non-op?

-Nathan

Its all a matter of opinion. You see, it doesn't matter what you are "physically".
Mental health is the most important thing in a persons life.
My friend Ariel is a FTM.
She is a lesbian, and lives as a man, dresses as a man, calls herself a man, and wants to be named kip (only god knows why she chose THAT name. lol)
But she is not having the surgery anytime soon. She is not on any testosteron pills or supplements.
She just is who she feels she is. So really it all is up to you if you are pre-op or non-op.

Good luck Nathan!
Vanyn

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(Rating: 5) That was wonderful advice and thanks for giving me someone to relate too. I know so many people in the middle of their medical transition that sometimes I forget there are others out there like me.
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