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I am a 27 year old female from Scotland. I have a lot of life experience and will do my best to answer any questions you have honestly.
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okay so i meet quite a few guys regularly with one of my groups of friends...but theres my friend from my other group who i LOVE shes exactly like me and im super close to her who i always end up introuducing to them...but what she does is ends up becoming closer than me with them, then for some reason they go from likeing me as more then friends, to her. But the thing that i dont understand is im defniatly better looking then her (im not being cocky, but its true) and i cant figure out why. i know its not the personality cuase were both confident and have very similar personalitys. The only thing i can think of is that i have braces and she doesnt...but they arnt noticeable like at all...also im more crazy and daring then her....can someone pleasee help me i cant figure out why this is happening and it always hurts me cuase i like the guys before they switch to her...and shes never had a boyfriend and doesnt intend to. sorry its so long. thanks in advance
Maybe the crazy and daring thing makes them see you as a "friend" more as it may portray you to be a bit of a tomboy. No offence!
Perhaps you should just learn to relax in their company and not try to impress them by being too crazy - guys sometimes find that a bit scary.
I know you say that you love this friend dearly however, even though she does not intend to have a boyfriend as such, it may be possible that she is a little jealous of the attention you receive in the first instance from these boys.
I really think the main focus for both you and your friend should be on having fun. There is no point in falling in love/liking these guys so readily just because you receive a lot of attention from them - my Mum's old saying comes to mind - "play with fire and you will get burnt". The right guy is out there for you and when you do meet him he will only have eyes for you.
(Rating: 5) thanks soo much :]