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advice

14/f

OK...so i'll try and make this short...me && this guy named jonathan have liked eachother for about 1 month now. we would talk on myspace and call eachother sometimes. then two days ago we got into a stupid argument that was pointless but, it was VERYY minor. WE GOT OVER IT...so he was suppose to ask me out but, he didn't. and he posted a bulletin on myspace saying that he was taken and loving it. i thought he meant me,,but I found out yesterday he's back with his ex. He didn't even tell me..my best friend did.. and when i found out, i was CRUSHED.. i was in tears and i couldn't believe that i was actually going through this again.[this happened w/ another guy].. and my friend told me that even though he's back with his ex,,he still has feelings for me. AND I'M HIS #1 ON MYSPACE..if that even matters...

so my questions are:

should i still talk to him??!! ..what's the point he has a girlfriend now..right??!!..i'm not even sure if i still like him because it hurt me soo much..should i move on to someone else??!!..what should i do overall..??!!

THNX IN ADVANCE

EDIT-
Yes, you'd be his rebound, which is why I suggested you just be friends with him. But if you really like him that much [as it seems you do], then does it really matter?
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Yes, you should still talk to him. Just because he didn't ask you out, doesn't mean there's no point in being friends with him. Don't just stop talking to him for that reason alone.

I also think you should move onto someone else. I mean, if this guy has a girlfriend now, there's no point in pursuing that kind of relationship with him. You don't want to do anything to ruin a relationship he has with someone else.

I think you should just be friends with him. You'll find someone else in no time. And, if you don't want to deal with that, then wait until he breaks up with his girlfriend. If he's done it before, there's a chance it'll happen again. Once that happens, continue going after him & seee what happens.

Good luck on that.

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(Rating: 5) thanx..but wudn't i be his rebound chick??!!..i' also an advicist here please w/b..my name is hershikissescanhelp...
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