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I love to give advice and help people. I never think any question is too stupid or small, even if it's been asked a million times. Honestly, it's better to ask than remain in the dark.

Some of my favorite quotes:

"People who ask our advice almost never take it. Yet we should never refuse to give it, upon request, for it often helps us to see our own way more clearly."
-Brendan Francis


"Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't."
-Erica Jong

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Ok I really dont like bugs. I hate them, I wish they didnt exist. When I see a bug I panic and run and scream. I feel so stressed and sad when I see a bug. I feel like Im gunna cry and I feel dirty like I need to take a shower. bugs are like my greatest fear i think. in fact right now im on the computer because there is a bug in my room and im not even sure if its in there any more but im not goin back in. Everyone else is asleep, my dad is out and the living is too dark for me to sleep there and for all i know the bug could be there. Ive been up for two hours now trying to avoid this bug. I havent gone to sleep at all yet. Im so tired that im literally seeing things. I really want to lay down in my comfy bed, but i cant explain how afraid i am to step in there and possibly see that bug again. It took a lot from me to do that the first time, becuase I seen it and didnt kill it and a few minutes later i eventually slowly dimmed the lights till it was off and went to lay down again but sat up the whole time nervous. I seen it again and ran out the room and havnt gone back since. Your probably laughing but I just have this feeling of extreme scaredness or w/e and like I just cant do it because Im going to cry. What should I do now and in the future when it comes to bugs ?

Honestly, I know how you feel- but you really have to face this fear. Just remember- It's just a bug- it should be scared of YOU. And it's not going to harm you. Just march into your bedroom with something to kill it with, and go in slowly, close the door, and search around your room for a few minutes.

If you find it, just slowly go up to it and kill it. I know it's hard, but nothing bad is going to happen- and then you will be able to sleep. If you don't find it after awhile...just go to bed with the door closed because it's prob not in that room.


Just face the fear, and remember there are much worse things out there then a bug.

Good luck and get some sleep!

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(Rating: 5) thanks. n dads home now.. hopin he can find it. thanks again
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