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ok so i have sort of a problem. im 15/f. i have, well had this best friend, lets call her w. ok well w and me were the closest friends you could possibly find. we were together 24/7. i loved her sooo much but at first she was kind of mean. at school she would always tell people all this bad stuff about me if we got into a fight. but we would act like everything was ok when it was just me and her. but she has always had this guy best friend and he is pretty mean to me and always makes fun of me with her. i just ignore it and act like everything is ok. then we started become really good friends with lets call her m. so me w and m became a group of friends, but then i was getting pushed aside. then they became friends and made this mean nick name about me and always talked about me, but pretended everything was all cool and they invited me places. but sometimes it just really hurts. but the other day i was pushed over the edge but im afraid to show them, because i dont have any other friends and its kind of hard to make new friends when everyone has their clicks already set and everything(im a sophomore by the way) and i want new friends, but m and w are so funny and i love being around them. but they are so different behind my back. i dont know what to do. i really need advice on how to deal with this.i've been friends with them like my whole freshman year, but i need a change because its making me feel bad and really crappy. (link)
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okay well i definitely know how you're feeling right now because i am in a VERY similar situation. i know it's really hard because a part of you wants to keep them as friends, but another part of you doesn't. but honestly, i think you should just let go of them because you'll only end up getting hurt more. i didnt have a choice because they left me, but it's their loss. you don't deserve to be treated that way. and yes, i know about all the clicks and stuff too and i KNOWW how hard it is to fit in to a new one because i was close to my ex-best friends since freshman year also and then sophomore year came and everything changed. i had other friends but it just wasnt the same because they had their own group of people as well. but just keep your head up and don't let them stomp all over you. i'm telling you, IT'S NOT WORTH IT. ahh i know i keep repeating the same thingggg, but i know it's hardd. it's gonna be hard for a while if you really loved them as much as i loved my old best friends. but even though i'm still not totally over it, it's getting better everyday. just try to meet new people and talk to them. find a hobby that you like to do a lot that will help take your mind of off them. maybe, find a boyfriend? hehe, well that's your choice. but yeah. i hope this helps you. =)
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