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Last Update: December 25, 2007
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ok so i have sort of a problem. im 15/f. i have, well had this best friend, lets call her w. ok well w and me were the closest friends you could possibly find. we were together 24/7. i loved her sooo much but at first she was kind of mean. at school she would always tell people all this bad stuff about me if we got into a fight. but we would act like everything was ok when it was just me and her. but she has always had this guy best friend and he is pretty mean to me and always makes fun of me with her. i just ignore it and act like everything is ok. then we started become really good friends with lets call her m. so me w and m became a group of friends, but then i was getting pushed aside. then they became friends and made this mean nick name about me and always talked about me, but pretended everything was all cool and they invited me places. but sometimes it just really hurts. but the other day i was pushed over the edge but im afraid to show them, because i dont have any other friends and its kind of hard to make new friends when everyone has their clicks already set and everything(im a sophomore by the way) and i want new friends, but m and w are so funny and i love being around them. but they are so different behind my back. i dont know what to do. i really need advice on how to deal with this.i've been friends with them like my whole freshman year, but i need a change because its making me feel bad and really crappy. (link)
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ok, well lets start off with you and w
ok i had a friend just like that and we made another friend and they became best friends and dissed me and i was also a sophomore. and they were my only friends but it got to a pont where i could not take it. So here comes the advice i suggest YOu confront both of them about it and see what they have to say about it. once everything is on the table it can go from there but it turns out to argureing and yelling its w/e from there. Just slowly start leaving them and its not hard to make friends in school i bet you have some friends in class that you have partnered up before get to know them more tell them about your problems and sooner or later they will invite you to sit with them. Honey and its only highschool u still have all of college and older life to make friends. If u need anything more just let me Know.
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