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ok so i have sort of a problem. im 15/f. i have, well had this best friend, lets call her w. ok well w and me were the closest friends you could possibly find. we were together 24/7. i loved her sooo much but at first she was kind of mean. at school she would always tell people all this bad stuff about me if we got into a fight. but we would act like everything was ok when it was just me and her. but she has always had this guy best friend and he is pretty mean to me and always makes fun of me with her. i just ignore it and act like everything is ok. then we started become really good friends with lets call her m. so me w and m became a group of friends, but then i was getting pushed aside. then they became friends and made this mean nick name about me and always talked about me, but pretended everything was all cool and they invited me places. but sometimes it just really hurts. but the other day i was pushed over the edge but im afraid to show them, because i dont have any other friends and its kind of hard to make new friends when everyone has their clicks already set and everything(im a sophomore by the way) and i want new friends, but m and w are so funny and i love being around them. but they are so different behind my back. i dont know what to do. i really need advice on how to deal with this.i've been friends with them like my whole freshman year, but i need a change because its making me feel bad and really crappy. (link)
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Well, it sounds like you have a problem similar to a personal experience of mine. I had a friend named, well, lets call her "h", and to my face she was really nice, but behind my back, well, lets just say u know the drill. so one day she was really mean to me, so i SAT WITH HER FRIEND AT LUNCH WHO SHE WAS IN A FIGHT WITH at the time, and she made this HUGE deal about it. It made me feel horible about something that was useless. But then she became a bit more of a backstabber, and i was getting sick of it. but i had to remember that we had been pretty good friends for a long time, and i didnt want to loose that. So what i did was i started hanging out with other people who liked the same things i did, or maybe even new people who i had said hi to once or twice, but never really got to know. We are still friends, jus not aas great friends. what i'm saying is lean on ur Other friends more and try to spend some time with other people. I hope that helps.
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