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Q: ive ben dating this guy for a long time about a year and one day my boyfriend and my bff were hanging out my bff said go buy us some pizza so i left to get the pizza when i came back with it the door was locked so i went in the back door and when i came in i didnt see then i looked in the hole house ecsep her bedroom so i went in her bedroom an they were both naked having sex.what should i do about my friend and my boyfriend?
that's an extremely bitchy thing of your friend to do. i would never talk to her again.

although, you shouldn't be the one to run around doing things for them or even leaving them alone in the house. that probably wasn't the smartest thing to do. it sounds like your boyfriend took advantage of you being gone and being with your "friend".

i'd never talk to either of them again. that's absolutely rediculous.

They had been having sex for weeks. Turns out he was having sex with her before he was having sex with me! :-( I dumped him and I dumped her as my friend.

This has kind of screwed up my life and I have some trust issues now, but if you hadn't encouraged me to do the right thing I might have forgiven him and stayed in that relationship! That probably would've killed me by now. Thank you!

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hiii! i'm caroline. i'm eighteen years old, and just started my freshman year of college. i have a magificent boyfriend who i love more than anything. we've been together over three years. he's also my best friend. speaking of which, my other best friends are also pretty fantastic. another huge part of my heart is devoted to god. he's blessed me with so much more than i deserve, and even though i fall short on a daily basis, he's still there for me, every step of the way. i'm a pretty simple girl- i love anything fun, texting, being outdoors, swimming, playing soccer, frisbee, or watching football, spending time with my family, and most of all- living my life to the absolute fullest.

to be frank, i'm not going to answer your questions about girl drama or pregnancy, because i have no experience in either of those categories, nor do i want to listen to you whine about how "we didn't use a condom" or "she's such a &*^#%!!!!". however, i'm totally open to anything else. drop something in my inbox and i'll get to it pretty quick- i'm quite the net nerd (:

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