about

i'm collin
hello to all of you who need advice (or perhaps would just like to say hi).

(that's where you say "hi collin!" but you don't have to because it might scare the people around you)

i'm a musician. i play bass, violin, mandolin, keyboards, guitars, drums, harmonica, xylophone, and just about everything else. i also sing lead for my band, the dirty fries, in st. louis, missouri.


my advice may be blunt sometimes, but you all will have to deal with it. i speak the truth, and the truth isn't always pretty.


i'll answer anything, too. as long as it's not something really idiotic like "OMG what color shirt should i wear tonight?!" because i don't answer that kind of crap. i'm a strong believer in there being no stupid questions, but honestly, those are not the sort of questions that should be posted on this website. plain and simple.


ask away
-collin



p.s. - anyone wondering where the numbers/letters in my username come from: they're the model number of my acoustic bass guitar.

advice

13/f.Okay yeah I know it's kind of retarded thinking about it now,but it's so pathetic that I've never had a boyfriend before.Ever.I mean I flirt alot,but psh.It's dumb.I feel so stupid sometimes..I just wish I could find someone who liked me too.Liking the person I like now,is worthless.It's not going to go anywhere,considering the age difference >.<
Help please?
I have no idea what to do.
And I think about it everyday..

well i must say that it's not pathetic that you haven't had a real boyfriend. hell, i didn't get my first girlfriend until i was fourteen and in high school, and that's the same thing for most of my friends. there's the occasional one that had something by 13, but not usually. and not to sound mean here or anything, but most relationships that happen at your age don't last, or don't really mean much.

you say you flirt a lot. so what? flirting doesn't really do much; sometimes it makes you look like a fool, and at 13 can get awkward. just be yourself. you don't have to act different to get guys to like you. sure it's cheesy advice, but it's true.

might i add that nothing is worthless. some things just can't happen. have you tried talking to this person you like? if you haven't, why not? it's worth a try.


-collin

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(Rating: 5) Thanks for the advice.No,I haven't tried talking to him in life,because I'm just so shy.But I do talk to him everyday.So I don't know.Plus he's almost 17.So eeek.Anyway thank you.
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