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Hi, I am Alison. Well I live in New York. I love helping people out and giving advice out to people. Fashion is my thing, so if you need any advice on that don't be afraid to ask = ]. I love getting messages for advice so feel free to ask me anything. I'm up to great oppurtunities in life. Ummm there isn't that much more to know about me!
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I think I have a major problem. You see me and this girl have been friends since we were born. But however since she has gotten older she has the WORST temper problem. She will barge into the room yelling at me becuase she is mad at life because she has 3 siblings at home and I only have 1 but she moved out so I am basiclly the only child.She also has the worst bragging problem... she will brag about EVERYTHING Thats not all though.... she will be so angery becuase I am better fit, and I have more friends.... not trying to sound concieted or anything but it is true... please help
Then lately she yelled at me saying that she would NEVER want to be friends. But 1 day later she wants to be friends again. But I dont think I want to though. please help me
Well first off, before you make a big decision of not being friends think it through. Try talking to her. I've been in this situation, it's just that my friend I guess was a little bit more dramatic than I want anybody to be. But remember she won't change over night. It's a long term process that will take awhile. And if you have time to take it, then yes you should probably try to work things out. If she really likes you and wants to keep being friends she'll try to change and not make you drag away. But if she ignores you, than you probably shouldn't be friends if she is going to have all those dramatic moments. Don't make your decision overnight, because you may have mixed emotions in the future and no one wants to hear "I want to be friends and then you don't want to be friends. Think it through and think if this relationship is special or if it has always been crappy and not exciting = ]
(Rating: 4) Thanks for the great advice... you sound like you have gone through this before..... lol
but really thank you!!!