Teenagerr's advice column

Hii. :]

I'm a 17 year old girl from the East Coast of the United States.

Although i'm young, i've been through my share of problems.

I'm not going to tell you I can answer any question, but I'll certainly try.

I don't judge people because of the fact that I don't like to be judged myself.

I'm generally a nice person, but if you give me attitude, you won't be happy with my response.

I love listening to music, etc.

I have a job & have volunteered before,

I've been through drivers ed & have my license + a car,

I'm going to be a senior next year so I can help you with high school experiences.

All in all, i'll try to help you no matter what.

I also tend to reference websites when giving my answers because then I have proof that my advice is valid.

Anyways. I'd like to end this with my favorite quote [I dunno why it's my favorite quote, but yeah. :D]

"If it ain't broke, don't fix it".

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Going to Warped Tour on 8/9 :]!
^ Was amazingly awesome.
'Specially since I got my favorite
singer Bryce Avary [The Rocket Summer]
to autograph a cd & took a picture with him !

advice

ok hi im jenny
im 15 years old and i have been having a terrible 5 months.
ok so i dated this kid who is 2 years older than me for 2 years. He also lives across the street from me. I also would like to believe that we were in love once or so I thought. He really seemed to love me and i sure as hell loved him. Then after about a year and a half of dating i felt like i was kind of getting tired of him and so were my friends, so i broke it off. I dated another guy that was his age and it made him terribly jealous. He would still call me every night and I would talk to him. Every night he would tell me he loved me, even when i was dating someone else. But the bad part about that was i told him "i love you" back, because I really did. Your probably wondering why I did'nt just break up with the boyfriend I had then and go back to dating the one that I really loved. Well, I thought he wouldn't take me back and that he was just messing with me. So I dated that one guy for a few months making my ex jealous and then I finally broke it off. When i told the guy that i like that I broke up with that one guy he seemed happy, but that was it. After that we didn't hangout as much as I would have liked to and he didn't call me every night like he used to. I was so depressed. We kept talking occasionally and sometimes we would hangout, but rarley. Then one night I was going to introuduce my friend to him so we went outside and met up. He was acting VERY strange..he didn't give me a hug or even say hi to me, he was in a terrible mood. So my friend and I were not going to stand for it so we went back inside. I was SO MAD! I stayed up all night waiting for him to call me, but he never did. Then the next day he called, but being stubborn I did not answer thinking that i would call him back later. And yes i did call him back way later that night, but no answer. I kept trying and he never answered, so then i knew something was wrong. Now on this very day I still love him and want him back, and it has been 4-5 months. Oh by the way he has a new girlfriend that he is in LOVE with and he wont talk or even look at me. I REALLY NEED ADVICE and im sorry if this is confusing or too long but please read it all.. i want advice. just answer me back or email me if you have any questions. BUT PLEASE DONT TELL ME TO MOVE ON..TRUST ME I HAVE BEEN TRYING BUT HE LIVES RIGHT ACROSS THE STREET I SEE HIM EVERY DAY!

-- Edit.
Yeah, um. If his family won't talk to you either, then there's a problem. Can your parents talk to his parents about how sad you are that he won't talk to you? Or if you're gonna talk to his girlfriend, become her friend first. Don't just come out and say anything about him. If you're her friend, she'll know you better. Then jjust come out and say that you miss him as a friend and he won't talk to you, etc.
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Sorry I couldn't help more.
-- /Edit.

You've gotten to the point where you need to talk to some people he sees regularly. If you have talked to his mom before, try to explain the situation in a way that she'd understand and i'm sure she'll talk to him about it. If you feel uncomfortable doing that, befriend his new girlfriend and go from there. If she sees that you're nice, and finds out what he's been doing to you, she'll surely say something to him about it.

If you really love him, don't give up. Just go to his house and ask him about this, tell him you miss him and want to be friends with him.

I hope everything works out for you.
Get back to me if you need any more help.
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(Rating: 4) his whole family basically hates me.
and like i said he will not look at me.
i seriously dont know what to do.
and plus what would i say besides i miss him if he did talk to me. should i just wait for him to break up with his girlfriend?

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