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My name is Elly and I am 18 years old. I live in Michigan and I graduated High School in '07. I'm currently attending a great college, but I'm home for the summer. It's too nice outside to sit on the computer all day, so I might not be as active on here as I would like.

I guess a good way to describe me is experienced. I've discovered a lot about life and I can't wait to discover more... while having fun at the same time of course! ...BUT, like everyone, I have experienced things in life that I rather wish I hadn't. And I also feel that those bad experiences qualify me to help others with this column.

I have been in a serious relationship for over two and a half years now. I personally know that love is a difficult thing to nurture. It takes a lot of work. Life is NOT a fairytale where two people can simply love each other and everything will just fall into place. It doesn't work like that in the real world.

People on Advicenators are starting to disappoint me. Everyone says "ooh I want to help! I've experienced EVERYTHING!" Yet, I can't tell you how many questions I see with answers like "you could have googled that" or "we're not going to do your homework" or "I'm so sick of 'wow does he like me?!' questions." I used to sort of be like that, but now I realize how hypocritical that is. If I know the answer to a question, I will answer to the best of my ability without making you feel stupid for asking it in the first place. Advicenators is going to turn into a pretty nasty place if people just keep brushing off questions like that.

Rate or don't rate. I really don't care. But don't give me a 1 just because I tell you something you don't want to hear. Go to your mom for advice if you want sugarcoated answers.

I can give excellent advice on:
relationships/sex
friendship
family issues
anything about animals (i worked at a vet for several years)
college

advice

ok, I was talking to the guy i really really like last night. and im pretty sure he likes me back, we flirt alot, and have stupid arguments about who is more "special" haha, he always tells me im really special and that Im more special than he could ever be. but I deny it and tell him he is just as wonderful. so as we were talking and he was telling me that he smiles so much when he talks to me, and he doesn't think hes ever smiled as much has he does when he talks to me :) it made me so happy, and I told him that he makes me smile more, and that he makes me blush and everything. and then he was like well if you smile this much talking to me, we will have to hang out and do something exciting and see how much we can get you to smile :), did he ask me out??? Im not sure were like really good friends, and im not sure if he means just me or him? or other people as well? do you think he asked me out on a date??

Honestly I think that was just his way of saying he wants to spend more time with you because he wants to get to know you better. I agree with the other answers, guys can be pretty tricky. He obviously seems to like you a lot, so he's porbably working up to asking you out.

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(Rating: 5) yea your right haha im sure that was it I think next time I see him :] thanks alot!!
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