I am a down to earth mother of three. I can tell it straight and still be nice about it.
Gender: Female
Age: 28
Member Since: July 10, 2007
Answers: 4
Last Update: July 10, 2007
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what do you do when you realize you don't love your boyfriend?
this sounds horrible but im so lost
my boyfriend is so completely in love with me but i dnt feel anything for him... at all
i used to but it's been 6 months and he's lied to me so many times i just get disgusted by him now
and we've broken up 4 times and everytime lasted about a week then its back because he apologizes real well and promises to be better, it really destroys him when we break up and i never want to hurt him. breaking up never works, we always get back together! we were best friends for about a year before we ever started dating so i care for him but i don't love him, im sure of it.
i talk to him, he doesnt get it. the thing is we are so perfect for eachother but i don't feel it with him.
can i make myself love him? (link)
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do not stay in a relationship only because the other person seems to need you. This will only be at your expense and misery. Besides the type that get weird whenyou leave and are needy may become stalkers or abusive. If you really feel you must stay for his feelings then, I would wait until the next time he messes up and break it off. And then stay broke up.
Love is natural, you can not make it.
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everybody was just telling me to break it off but they didn't understand the way he would react if it came out of nowhere. your advice to break it off next time he lies/does somethig bad will make for a clean break thank you so much i owe you tons =]]
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