Hey, I'm chloe, I'm 16 from England
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Ive noticed some things about myself and i was wondering if these are normal and how to change them.
I could go outside with my family and have the best day of my life, but then come home and after a few hours be misreable and angry.
When i am having a great day, it never seems to last. But after a little bit i can cheer myself up. But then ill be sad again.
I get to sleep at about 11 (or somtimes 2) at night (or 2 in the morning)
I have wierd eating habbits where i dont get hungry (expt i always love candy/munchies) until late at night, when i need to go get somthing to eat.
I'm a 13 year old girl
I broke up with my boyfriend (who i had been datin on/off for a year) out of the blue. (The day after i had heart surgery and he has been so suportive about it, saying he would visit me and everything) He was perfect and amazing but i didnt think i loved him and some days im over him and im happy for him and whatever new life hed like to have and i want him to get a girlfriend and move on and other days i just want him back. But i know i cant because i dont even know what i want.
Some days when i think about things my ex-boyfriend would do or say, it would make me be thankful it was over and other times the same things make me miss him.
I know im smart enough to get straight As but i get As and Bs because its so much simpler in theory. I get to stressed from all of the pressure of quizes.
I have high expectations of myself and i seem to fail most of them.
I used to think i had the best body but now im losing faith in my self image.
Im in-consistant in everything.
I used to think i needed to be perfect in everything..
Im inspired easily but easy come easy go.
I feel like my life is ina downward spiral and that im going crazy. But tomorow when im happy everything will look so clear.
What is my problem? Why am i like this?
Please help. Id love any advice that you can give me. (link)
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Aw i remember going through this when i was about 13, Nothing bad has happened to you it's just as my mum said 'becoming a woman'. All your hormones are up and down and everywhere right now and it's making you go through these crazy emotions and moods. I have certain times through the month...1 week i cry and cry about absolutely nothing or something silly like losing a pen! I don't feel like crying it just comes out and then i feel horrible...another week i can't sleep and go to sleep at 1-2am then wake up every single hour til i get up panicing that i'm late..I go through hot and cold phases, bloating, feeling rough every wonderful thing that puberty and now periods give you lol. If you haven't started already, it sounds like your heading towards periods as all these things are symptoms of 'the time of the month'. There's nothing to worry about it's just being a girl. Best cure for when you feel down = chocolate and shopping;) I find exercise clears your mind a lot and i'm always less stressed out when i've been in the gym or done some hockey and lacrosse!
If you find things really hard you can take hormone vitamin tablets for women (you can get them from chemists and probably supermarkets) which calm your hormones down a bit so you don't feel so grumpy:P
I found 13 to be one of the hardest years because everythings growing, you're getting a more womanly shape, moods and everything gets on top of one another, just chill and do something you enjoy when you feel down, you'll laugh about it when you're older!:)
Hope you feel better in yourself soon!
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Wow,.thank you so much. Im normal, Yay!!!great im glad its just part of growing up thanx again
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