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Q: okay well i like this one guy(lets call him cody) and i also kind of like this other guy(lets call him matt) codys going to the movies with the one girl he likes( lets call her kate) but he told me he likes me too& ive also heard that from a couple of his friends& at the same time im going to the movies with matt(the guy i sort of like) and i was wonderingg if i should just act friends with matt because im not really sure if i want a relationship with him because cody knows i like him& hes "said" hes trying to "straighten" things out with kate because they went out and then they broke up but thats all he told me: so back to my question should i act just friends with matt or act flirty with him to get cody jealous: and i know that sounds like im using matt but i sort of like him too so in a way its not using him because im pretty sure he likes me too and stuff
ahhhh please help!!!

Cody s using you as a backup plane. If things dont straighten back out with kate then u will be right there waiting on him. And if you acted it like that towards matt then he is going to assume that you really like him, and he will feel like crap when/if you do start to mess with cody.

Rating: 5

wow i NEVER thought of it like that:
omg thank you sooo much!!!! :D

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