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I'm a qualified colour therapist and I'm doing a course in psychotherapy and councelling. i have the letters SNHS after my name which means i have a diploma from The School of Natual Health Sciences.
I have life experience in mental health, agoraphobia,bullying,parents divorce.


advice

i'm 5'2" my boyfriend is 5'7-8" he's 7 1/2" and i have really short legs... he doesn't like to do all the work so he puts me on top sometimes, and i just feel soo lost. i can't get myself up high enough to do a good job, and in past relationships i've never had to do anything. i'm trying everything i can to do better.. i've read everything.. is there anyone with the same problems?

thank you,
beth

Yes i can deffiantly relate, although theres more of a height difference with me and my boyfriend.
I'm 5ft2, and he's 6ft4!

Have you tried putting a pillow under your back to elevate you?

Also, instead of doing it in bed, we found sitting on the floor works wonders, him sat on the floor while you sit on top of him with your legs wrapped round his waist, it's really close and intimate too :-)

or you could try sitting on sofa and he kneels on the floor and you do it that way.

Have fun! ;-)

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(Rating: 5) thank you, how does the pillow work for you if you're on top though? i've tried everything.. he puts me on top when he gets tierd but doesn't want to stop. which means, I have to do all the work
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