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Q: 16/f

-Okay, so I was dating this kid Dave for about a month and a half, and I had never told him I loved him. I never really thought that it'd actually make a difference in our relationship. As much as I'd want to tell him, I was scared of him getting scared and getting out of the relationship. But instead I lost him from holding back. I work with him now, and I am constantly thinking about what we once had. It'd been about 4 months since he dumped me, but I've still yet to move on. I've attempted talking to other guys, but I cant move past the reminders of how much I truly love him. I want to tell him how I feel, but I am scared of rejection. I understand that sounds pathetic, it's true. But my heart is just expressing itself. I really miss him, a lot! But I dont know how to go about getting him back into my life. Anyone have any ideas? I was thinking about asking him to the movies sometime soon, but I dont want to make things akward, ya know?

Please, help would be excellent.

S/N - CRASHCOURSEASHxx if you would like to help out even more! :)
Everyone is going to get rejected at least once in their life so dont be scared, because there are other men around besides him. Just make smile talk, and then build uo to asking him to the movies.

EXAMPLE: Have you seen ________?
O! I heard that was a good movie!!
You want to go see it with me?

And so he feels comfortable on this "date" if he says yes, make your first date a group date so he wont feel awkward....

EXAMPLE: Me and a group Of friends are going to the movies, You want to come?

OR just take the straight approach and ask him. lol


I like your way of thinking :)
Thanks a whole bunch!

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