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Q: 13/f, i am the youngest of quite a large family. 8 children to be exact, and some of you know how terrible it is to be the youngest. As you know im 13 and i have 5 older sisters, and 2 older brothers. The sister right infront of me is 14, we were bestfriends when we were little. Now she is the most meanest person in the whole intire family, everyone is mean to me, always against me, telling me how stupid i am and immature. In the family everyone has there friends, my first 3 sisters are like best friends and my 2 brothers are bestfriends, and my two other sisters are best friends. Now im on my own, all i have is myself :[ i feel so terrible and unwanted. even my mom gives everyone else more attention and money and time.


how can i help myself not feel so crappy?

thanks :D
Get out more. Go spend time with your friends.
Try doing more stuff on your own and not worry about them. Like you said your the youngest, so of course they are going to call you everything that they do. Have you ever talked to your mom about it and told her How you felt? Do that! Where is you dad? If your mom wont listen, write her a note and leave it somewhere You know she is definately going to look. She is going to be nosey enough to read it trust me.

thanks soo much i appreciate it a lot :D

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