Hi, this is Kate. I'm 17. My life motto is 'Live Laugh Love', I really think those are great words to live by and I'm planning to have it made into a tattoo. I'm not religious but I love learning about different religions. I write stories based on things that have happened to me because sometimes I have days where I just think 'wow that sounds like something out of a book'. I've finished 3 stories and I'm about to start my first horror story..very exciting. I believe in fairy tale love...the kissing in the rain, staring at the stars on the rooftop kind of love..Why? Because I'm in that kind of love and its been the greatest time of my life. And it didn't come easy.
I'd love to help you with whatever issues come your way. I've been in relationships where the guy was too old for me, the guy was my best friend, the guy just wanted to get some. I've been the other woman but I'm not proud of it. I've been the girl who waits years to be with the guy she wanted.
I come from the type of home where everyone seems okay and then when everyone leaves its chaos. My parents should have been divorced years ago and I can't stand to be around either of them so for now I'm going day by day, only coming home to sleep and counting down the days until I go to college in August.
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okay well I need very good advice on this quesitons so please try to understand my situation. Okay, well my pretty good friend is going out with this guy. I use to like him when I was around 9 but now I'm 14 & he's 15.. Well, they have been going out for about 2-3 weeks now. Well, me & him started talking through aim and stuff & I ened up telling him how I crushed on him before. A day later he tells me he "thinks" he likes me. So we talked,talked,talked blah & blah. Then he called me once & we stared talking for a long time & we finally got to know each other & figured out we have A LOT in common. & we were talking like a "couple" even though they are going out. But don't think I'm a man stealer or anything. He told me wayyyy before he even liked me that he was thinking of breaking up with her but doesnt know how. He tells me how she's like freaky taking about how she did "stuff" before & we all know thats a lie.I mean she's my friend & all but she's also been known to be a fakie. Anyways he's at some thing or whatever in Kentucy or whatever. & since his "girlfriend" is my friend she's been telling me how she really really misses him & how he's not calling while all this time me & him have been talking to like 3 in the morning & texting the whole day. This has been going on for about a week now. So I Guess what I need advice on is your opinion about the situation. Also, I dont know what I'm going through becasue i never felt like this before. He's been very nice to me telling me he loves me & stuff[ I know you cant love someone that soon but its out thing if you know what I mean]. So I'm wondering what is this I'm feeling becasue I'm like checking my phone every damn second to see if he called or if i acidentally missed the call or something. Uhh i'm so confused. He's like you know we could make such a cute couple & I really want to go out with you after I slowly settle things down with "her". Bit I told him is it right to do this to her becasue It's a chick thing & she's my friend would she hate me?I really need advice & help on what you think this phase is. He calls me his babe & how he just wants me by his side & such adorible stuff. Please don't tell me how would you feel if you were her becasue first I'm not her & he feels different about me then he does with her. So please please people give me advice on what to do and what I'm feeling. & should I go out with him? (link)
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ok i was in your exact situation. he told me he loved me while he was still going out with his girlfriend and i fell for it. after him and his girlfriend broke up we quickly went into a sexual relationship. people found out, including his ex girlfriend and i lost a lot of friends. nobody trusts me anymore and the guy and me aren't together anymore. in fact he said it would be easy to end our relationship because there were "no strong feelings involved" now maybe your guy isn't the same but the situation is very similar. if he truly loves you and is not even hinting that he is only using you then go ahead and be with him but im warning you, these relationships rarely go well.
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Okay,well to tell you the truth he's not a sexual type of guy. I mean she told him all the bizzare things she's done before and he was like wow! I really don't want to know that. It seems like he hasn't gone through his "stage" yet. & I get what you mean but there's another catch to this. I only have 1 true,good,loyal BEST FREIND. Everybody else is fake and the people that arn't fake we're just friends. But she's has lied to me so much in the past that I can't believe I'm even talking to her. & I know what you mean by these relationships don't always go well. I understand that, but I mean I haven't ever had a long relationship & I'm not really planning on having one because I'm 14. I just want something so I can atleast have him. Boys these days are very weird & don't care about the relationship. he's not like that I mean he really doesn't like her & still he's like I dont wanna break her heart. I'm soory this is long but thank you so much for your opinion & adivce. :]
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