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okay well I need very good advice on this quesitons so please try to understand my situation. Okay, well my pretty good friend is going out with this guy. I use to like him when I was around 9 but now I'm 14 & he's 15.. Well, they have been going out for about 2-3 weeks now. Well, me & him started talking through aim and stuff & I ened up telling him how I crushed on him before. A day later he tells me he "thinks" he likes me. So we talked,talked,talked blah & blah. Then he called me once & we stared talking for a long time & we finally got to know each other & figured out we have A LOT in common. & we were talking like a "couple" even though they are going out. But don't think I'm a man stealer or anything. He told me wayyyy before he even liked me that he was thinking of breaking up with her but doesnt know how. He tells me how she's like freaky taking about how she did "stuff" before & we all know thats a lie.I mean she's my friend & all but she's also been known to be a fakie. Anyways he's at some thing or whatever in Kentucy or whatever. & since his "girlfriend" is my friend she's been telling me how she really really misses him & how he's not calling while all this time me & him have been talking to like 3 in the morning & texting the whole day. This has been going on for about a week now. So I Guess what I need advice on is your opinion about the situation. Also, I dont know what I'm going through becasue i never felt like this before. He's been very nice to me telling me he loves me & stuff[ I know you cant love someone that soon but its out thing if you know what I mean]. So I'm wondering what is this I'm feeling becasue I'm like checking my phone every damn second to see if he called or if i acidentally missed the call or something. Uhh i'm so confused. He's like you know we could make such a cute couple & I really want to go out with you after I slowly settle things down with "her". Bit I told him is it right to do this to her becasue It's a chick thing & she's my friend would she hate me?I really need advice & help on what you think this phase is. He calls me his babe & how he just wants me by his side & such adorible stuff. Please don't tell me how would you feel if you were her becasue first I'm not her & he feels different about me then he does with her. So please please people give me advice on what to do and what I'm feeling. & should I go out with him?

Your not going to like this. But if I was your friend I would HATE you for going out with someone I had feelings for. Best frineds arent suppose to do this. Like I *WAS* friends with this girl, well she went out with the guy I liked so bascially she stole him from me in a way. Were not friends anymore. And honestly I cant get over her stealing him. If your friend really likes him, I wouldnt do it. I wouldnt go out with him. I know it will be hard to not go out with him. But on the other hand maybe your friend wouldnt really mind as much. But if you really want to go out wit him, and you would risk it..I would wait awhile to do anything and make it offical. Wait it out. See how she feels. Example: IM her call her which ever you want to do and say somehting like "If your frined ever went out with him would you be mad?" Ask her how she'd feel if you went out with him. Ask her how she'd feel if you had any sort of feelings for him if she would be mad. Just keep in mind she can be lying about saying she doesnt care when deep down she really does.


I know this is probabaly not what you wanted to hear. But I tried my best to explain to you both point of views.

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