well what can i say...
I'm from Virginia, an am 17 years old. i enjoy long walks on the beach, candle-light dinners, and lying about liking both.
i hope i can help a few people. if i can just help one, I'll consider my being on this site worthwhile. I can't necessarily guarantee that any advice i give will instantly help, and i won't promise that what i say will make you happy. i can however promise that what i say will be truthful, and that it is what i believe is the best course of action for you.
Website: my myspace
E-mail: nathan.pollock@verizon.net
Gender: Male
Location: good ol' RVA
Occupation: ice cream scooper
Age: 17
AIM: wsl607
Member Since: October 20, 2006
Answers: 32
Last Update: June 28, 2007
Visitors: 2651
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15/f.my ex bf and i are like best friends. we ended up hooking up [making out] this past weekend. and then we just kinda talked about it [on AIM] and, well, i just dont know what i want. or how i feel about him anymore. even though it's kinda slutty && unlike me, i wanna keep hooking up with him ! but i dont really think i want a realtionship with him again. because obviously, we broke up for a reason. there was a lot of problems when we were dating so we mutually decided that we should be friends. then...we hooked up. so now i think we're both confused. but hes pretty much made it clear that he doesnt really want to go on dates with me or be my ''boyfriend'' anymore. personally, i dont really want to go out with him either. but i just cant stop thinking about him lately. i dont know what to do. i care about him, but i think it's only as a friend. and i'm pretty sure thats all he feels for me too now. is having a friends - with - benefits really that bad, as in slutty? it IS summer...but idk. is it bad to hook up with him when there's no... feeling behind it? ugh idk =/ (link)
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having a friends with benefits with one person isn't really slutty at all. your main concern is that one of you may get feelings for the other again and wish to get back together, while the other does not. this can cause problems that may ruin any sort of friendship you all have with each other at the present time.
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