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ok so almost 2 years ago i started talking to this boy was friends he dated my best friend at the time a little while after they broke up we started "talking" then he asked me out one night like 2 days later he broke up with me he told me at the time it was cause he needed time to talk to me more and stuff turns out he was drunk well we "talked" for about a month dont see how he could be drunk that whole time well after we stoped talking he dated a few of my friend for some months then the summer came we got friends like good friend he was gonna ask me out then asked someone else out then they broke up he was gonna ask me out asked one else out then they broke up and i was so close then he thought i liked his friend asked someone else out and he hated me for a while then we got back friends when they broke up and we was kewl for a while but only friends then out of no where he would be mean and that went on for a while then not to long ago we got back friends and things were going great and then he found another girl and now he says mean things about me i told him to leave me alone so i can get over him but hes the only one i think ill ever want and idk what to do i know this is long but please someone give me advice.

I know how you feel, and at least you are aware of the fact that if you keep on being around him, then you will continue to want him and think about him and ultimately like him still. If you really, truly want to get over him, then I think you should space yourself from him, and figure out and tell yourself why it wont work out, because it sounds like he is not only a bad friend, but wouldnt be a very good boyfriend. Even if he talks to you, stand strong, and distance yourself away from him. When you think you dont like him anymore, then try talking to him for a little while and see if the feelings come back. If they do repeat the process. I am kinda sorta in this situation too, and the best way to get over him is officially tell yourself that you are going to try to better your friendship with him...and dont forget to look for someone who is better than him, that would be a good person to start a relationship with.

I really Hope I helped
Alesia

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