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Life is confusing and mistakes are only a part of human nature, no one is perfect and sometimes the right answer isnt always clear...but, when you find knowledge and understanding, its what you do with it that defines your character and who you are as a person.For myself, Ive made a lot of choices in my life, good and bad. Yet, the experiences and the lessons that have come from them have taught me to be who I am today, and without the bad times or wrong choices, I wouldn't be the person I am today or know the things I do. Pain and suffering Is something life gives you because it brings out the strength in your character and shows you what you're made of.
advice
on 3 things...
1. giving hand jobs
2. kissing
3. on sex (the first time). Like does it hurt?
ok thanks.
Its kind of a mystery when we all first start out, but the key is just to really play around and see whats turning him on more. But, at least if you're to give a guy a hand job, don't just use one hand, put both of them to work:p You can stroke his shaft up and down (dont squeeze on it too hard or hold it too loosely, but have a nice grip on it and do different things like switch up the pace of it, or go up and down and then guys are really sensitive at the top of their penis so use your thumb at times and lightly skim over the top (stroke the top with your thumb while the rest of your hand is still holding his stuff (i dont like the word penis or dick that much it sounds so ugly:P) At the same time use your hand, and guys REALLY like it if you rub their balls at the same time, Kissing, is something you just do, you develop your own style but it will come naturally so don't put too much thought into it. The whole idea of french kissing is to message the others tongue and usually if hes kissing you (its like dancing lol, hell take the lead and you just respond to his moves with your tongue until you see how its done and start whipping out your own moves:P) Sex, yes for the first time it does hurt, for the first couple times actually and depending on his size of stuff and also yourself (some girls hurt more than other girls) Try to ease yourself into it with foreplay (like he fingers you and kind of gets your puss ready for the big show:) Make sure you use protection though because you don't want a baby anytime soon especially for the first time and make sure its the right time and person that you want to have sex with (not just anyone because you dont want to hook up with a random guy that probablly hooks up with other random girls and is carrying an std) So, use a condom and if he is your boyfriend of a while you could get birthcontrol (they dont protect against std but the will most likely keep you from having babies and its not such an inconvenience each time you have to stop in between the hott passionate love making:p and put a condom on) But, the best way to be totally protected is to use both (condom and pill) Anywho, enough about that, I dont want to scare you I just want you to be safe and enjoy your first time with no regrets, so have fun with your lucky man and Im sure hell be happy with anything you do to him. Good luck:)
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