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me and my bf are hanging out later today and i know he's going to be doing that but im not the skinniest person around..i've got mad belly fat lol.
so will he still like, enjoy it?

It doesnt matter if your skinny, big bonned :), short, tall, guys have different preferences and if he likes you and is in to you than he likes you for who you already are, he probablly doesnt care about a little chub because what attracted him to you in the first place was you yourself and the way you are now. Besides, we all go through our skinnier and chubbier phases:P Unless, you want to lose a little weight for yourself and yourself only, dont change anything about yourself for anyone else because there are always going to be guys who will love you for you and just the way you are, not superficial reasons, and if that is how they are, then theyre too superficial themself and arent seeing the true beauty of your personality. Not just what you have to show, if that's the case, you can find much better. Guys don't always like really skinny girls, and they also don't like really hott girls with no personality (no personality only makes you ugly even if you are good looking) So, value yourself and the awesome qualities you already have (like personality) And remember, a little belly fat never killed anyone and its much softer to hold and hug:) Dont be self conscious and love yourself for what you are not what others want you to be, So have fun with your baby tonight and don't worry about a thing!:)

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