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Hey my name is Rachael and I'm sixteen years old. Like anyone else on this site, I love to help people. Ask me anything and I'll give the best possible answer I can!

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Soo, hello.
Well first off I'm 14 and a girl so this may seem like another, '(pre)teen thinks she's in huge dilemma even though it's a simple answer'. Well, I know the answer but I need some more...advice.

Okay so I have this 'major' lust for a guy friend of mine. He's just everything I want in a boyfriend but also some things I don't want. I am planning to make a 'move' on him but there's just a large problem in my way,
The Communication going on between us. Our communication isn’t…. A lot. He’ll talk to me one day and then sort of ignore me the other day. Most times, we only say hi to each other. It wasn’t always like this, we use talk like good friends and joke around too. That’s the person I really fell over for. I need help with this. Before I ask you them, I have talk to him about it but he doesn’t see anything weird about it. I have told him I liked him TWICE and he doesn’t really say anything but an ‘ok’ and ‘that’s cool’. Even if we don’t talk to each other, I always catch him looking at me and I try to wave back but he turns around quickly when he sees that I’ve caught his look. Haha, okay moving on.
Should I really make a move on him and would it be worth it?
Do any of you have suggestions as to why he acts the way he does with his ignoring and looking?
Much appreciated if you’d answer. Thanks a lot!

This happens to a lot of girls with guys. The fact that you like him is making him uneasy. I think that he doesn't want to ruin your friendship. It's not normal to respond to somebody liking you by saying "okay" or "cool." I, personally, think you shouldn't make a move.. because there are some signs that say he thinks of you otherwise. Maybe talk to him about the communications issues though. Tell him that you're confused by when he ignores you one day, then talks to you the next.
I hope I helped..

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(Rating: 5) Hmmm, thanks. I'll try that and see what happens.
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