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Hey my name is Rachael and I'm sixteen years old. Like anyone else on this site, I love to help people. Ask me anything and I'll give the best possible answer I can!

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15f im sorry if its long please just bare with me i really need help.

i cant stand living in my house anymore. my mom only comes here just to argue. she says ive changed alot and i know i have but thats all part of growing up. she always hits me and im sick of it. i dont know what to do. i want to leave so badly. she tells me that she doesnt love me as much as she used to. and that really hurts me. i just entered highschool and life is getting so hard for me. my grades are getting low, my boyfriend of 9 months broke up with me, my family is falling apart especially my mom she comes to my room to hit me or to scream at me everyday. she argues so mmuch. i cant stand this anymore. i ahte living here. i hate my new school i jsut hate my life. i really dont know what to do. i cant stand my mom. she is so annoying. im sick of her just coming into my room to argue. also, its summer break im supposed to be out with my friends having a good time and she says she sint going to let me go out anymor. she says im grounded for the whole summer. i want to go out with my friends, to the beach the pool the park the movies. i hate her! i dont know what to do. she wont let me do anything. my life is hard enough. please help

It sounds really hard for you right now. I know what you're going through, too. I know right now everything is really bad and everything is going down hill and you think it's never going to get better. But you really have to look on the bright side of things. God did not put you on this earth to suffer.. things always get better. You just have to wait it out. Is there anyone else you're close to in your family you can talk to? If you're close to your dad.. or if you have siblings.. or an aunt or uncle, tell them how your mom's treating you. Someone needs to talk to her and tell her what she's doing isnt right. She probably has deeper issues she can't handle and she's taking it out on you. I know it's also really hard to lose someone you've been dating for so long. Hopefully you both can be friends.. but if it's best you arent, then let it be. Entering high school is also a hard thing to go through. Just try to get your grades back up and stay on track in school.. Missing work and doing poorly in class only makes things more stressful around the house. but, I think if you tell an adult you're close to about your mom, they can talk to her. Maybe then she'll realize what she's doing and let you hang out with your friends this summer.
I really hope things get better for you.. :]

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(Rating: 5) thankyou so much i feel like you understand..but i dont think things will get better as i speak i m n my room and shes screaming out my door..
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