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Q: okay...im datin this guy named michael lee....i like him ..but im havin second thoughts cause its like everytime were on the phone..we hardly talk...then on 6/13/07 i met this guy named Kaleb..he is sweet..we have alot in common and when i say a lot i mean alot....we could hardly stop talking the nite he called me...we can talk about ANYTHING....unfortunately he lives in Hawaii..but if i say with lee im gonna be moving to MD so it still wont work...i jus dont kno wwat to do...


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If it's awkward between you and Michael Lee... then I think you should move on because an awkward relationship is uncomfortable. You do not want to get in a position where you get hurt by a guy because it didn't work out. Do not go all out for a guy if the guy doesn't even put effort in the relationship, you know? The guy and the girl has to make things work for a relationship to seriously work out. As for Kaleb, he seems really cool from how you described him. Since you and Kaleb talk a lot, do you really like him more than a friend? Would he accept you as a girlfriend and does he have feelings for you aside being just friends? Think about it because if you break up with Michael Lee too soon, you might regret it but then again, like you said, it wouldn't work out anyway. But I think you should confront Michael Lee about this awkwardness and why it's so hard to talk to him & as for Kaleb, make sure, you want to be with him. It's ok if he lives in Hawaii. If you truly feel some connection, vibe, etc. with him... go for it! Chase after your dream, you know? :] My advice to you... as a girl: follow your heart! :) Never give up & just, do what your heart tells you to do! Good luck & have an awesome summer!!

tnx 4 d advice..u really hve me goin there..i hve to keep it a good thought..n c wat d future brings..ill jus take m life day by day n wait..but tnx 4 d advice...ill follow...

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