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OK, there is this guy, he is really cool, he is also 15, but sort of oblivious. We went out for exactly a month, but broke up because we only saw each other on the weekend, and he wasnt sure if he liked me like that...because we only really acted as friends (we were each other's first boyfriend/girlfreind). So it was hard...but anyway we are still friends, and I am over his house literally every weekend. Me, him, and our two other friends ALWAYS hang out, just the four of us, and these days it seems like he is treating me like im invisible, and the other times, flirting with me. The point is, I want him back, and I know it is possible, I just need advice on things I can do, I already have his attention, but I want him to really like me, so we dont have confusion again on whether he likes me or not like before. I dont think he has lost all feelings for me yet, but i want to give him a good reason to want me back again. I want to be able to flirt with him (but not too much to freak him out), I want to show him how good a girlfriend I can be (without being to obvious), I just want him back. We are going out on his birthday (the four of us) and I was thinking of doing something bold...like giving him his first kiss or somethin...I just want him back, but i want him to want me back too. PLEASE HELP!!!!
Hey, well you cant force somebody to like you and if you try to, it usually backfires in everyones face. I think its a great idea to give him his first kiss on his birthday. That will be an extra little birthday present for him. It will also show him that you still have feelings for him. Be aware that he could get freaked out by it and thats the chance that you have to take. I would take it tho. It will let you know where you stand with him and your relationship with him. Hopefully he reacts good and the night is magical. I wish you the best =].
(Rating: 5) I do have a question tho, flirting with him and showing him what a good person i am...it wont hurt right?