about

i'm collin
hello to all of you who need advice (or perhaps would just like to say hi).

(that's where you say "hi collin!" but you don't have to because it might scare the people around you)

i'm a musician. i play bass, violin, mandolin, keyboards, guitars, drums, harmonica, xylophone, and just about everything else. i also sing lead for my band, the dirty fries, in st. louis, missouri.


my advice may be blunt sometimes, but you all will have to deal with it. i speak the truth, and the truth isn't always pretty.


i'll answer anything, too. as long as it's not something really idiotic like "OMG what color shirt should i wear tonight?!" because i don't answer that kind of crap. i'm a strong believer in there being no stupid questions, but honestly, those are not the sort of questions that should be posted on this website. plain and simple.


ask away
-collin



p.s. - anyone wondering where the numbers/letters in my username come from: they're the model number of my acoustic bass guitar.

advice

My bf and I have been dating for 3 weeks, we started dating at the end of school so we don't get to see each other much cause he can't come to my house or anything and my parents wont let me go out anywhere.
We call each other ocasionally (well I call him)
and we talk for a couple of hours
At first, he was hard to work with because he doesn't trust anyone
But I earned his trust, and now we're really good.
I like him a whole lot & I don't want us to end up fighting all the time.
Lately, he hasn't called/answered my calls
or messaged/answered my messages
today I read his messages from other people
and some girl said

we can still be friends but there are limitations.. dont send me a message more then 3 times a day unless im talking. stop poking me..dont call my cell b/c im running out of minutes..

to him
I dunno if it's an ex or what
but it kind of scares me
I trust him enough not to cheat on me
But I just want to know what you think of this


(SORRY FOR THE LENGHT)

hmmm


i don't think he's cheating

it sounds like an ex. that's the sort of thing exes say "we can still be friends but there are limitations." just looks like he's hung op on this girl.

but i do think there's an issue with you trusting him if you're reading his messages.

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