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so
i like this girl a lot
i've only known her for a few days
and never actually met her
but i've talked to her alot
like...6 or 7 hours collectively yesterday
and so i'm gonna actually meet her next week
and i already think she likes me
but how can i...ya kno..."put the moves" on her, as the guys at school say?
she seems really nice and so i wanna try and get more than a friend out of her...any advice?

Feel it out first, dont meet her and then right away try to put the moves on her, that can be a turn off to girls because they want you to get to know them first or else they're going to think you only want one thing, sex. So, the best way is to be sweet, and if you see that she's feeling you then start to get a little more bold like more body contact, little things like putting your hand on her back while you're walking with her, be slick and slip in a compliment but dont just say it out of no where, Its hard to really say what moves to do because you have to develop your own game and play it smoothe when the circumstances are right. You'll know when theyre right and if she's into you then she'll be flirty towards you and then that's where you slowly progress until the time is right and you can give her a kiss or become more intimate (hugging, etc). Whatever feels right to you, just dont go overboard to fast thats the most important thing. Hope that helps and if she likes you then things will fall into place on their own.

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