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Q: i dont really have feelings for my boyfriend of three years anymore. I still like him and want to be friends, but I just don't LOVE him anymore. We hardly see eachother at all because we went to different schools this year. But the point is, I asked him today on the phone if he still liked me, and he said yeah. I also asked if he still liked me as much as before, and he said yeah. he also said he wanted to "give me something" on thursday so i should go see him. uhhhh help please because i really don't want to hurt his feelings and omg what if he wants to "give me" a kiss? (im 14/f by the way....and even though we've been going out for a while, we still havnt kissed yet). it would be kind of romantic in a way, but i just dont want it to be with him anymore. i used to, but he missed that time. i like someone else. Please help i really dont know what to do. Please don't just tell me "break up with him" because it's sooooo hard because i've known him for a while and I care about him sooooo much. Thanks.
go see him. who knows, your feelings might come back. if they don`t, tell him the truth. the sooner the better, so he`s not too attatched. the sooner you do it, most likely the less it`ll hurt. just tell him you don`t feel the same anymore and either he`ll accept it, or he`ll try harder, which might help.

thanks =)

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