Hi everyone I'm Sean. im 14, very athletic and all of my friends come to me for advice so it gave me the idea of coming here to help everyone I can out. if you need me outside of advicenators you can look up my facebook: sean hoel or send me an AIM...but only if u neeed it cuz i dont want any spam lol.
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Location: St. Louis MO
Occupation: student attending school
Age: 14
AIM: metrostika26
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I think im in love with one of my best friends boyfreinds.. you see im extremely close to him and we talk all the time .. She treats him very very bad and he still loves her and i dont understand why.. It kills me to hear him tlell me how much he loves her but i dont want to losee him . i just idno im not the prettiest or skinniest girtl and i dont think i would ever have a chance with him .. plus hes head over heels for her but idont think she lovs him back..i dont know what to do
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well i dont think there is an easy answer. you can try to copy past an AIM convo of how bad she talks about him and send it to him, it could break them up and you would lose one of yur best friends with a risk of not even gaining him. if you did do that you could be there for him and talk him through it if they broke up. the problems with that is that he could get mad at you for doing that, or he could just shut everyone out, or he could turn for a rebound girl.
i personally think that one would be a low blow tho.
or you could try to find another love, think of someone else that you like and try to pursue them.
or you could go off on the guy and get him to hate you, you wouldnt have to hear him say how much he loves that girl and u wouldnt have to try to like him.(i dont reccomend this one but im just listing ideas)
or the hardest of all: stay with him just as a good friend and not interfere with this girl. it might not seem hard but it will be in the long run.
the rest is up to you which one u want to try to take, sry if its not wut yur looking for but i hope it helps and good luck
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